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Celebrating Black History Month

To celebrate Black History Month, learn about these African-American inventors and their inventions. Activities are included.

What do Sarah Boone, Alexander Miles, Garrett Morgan, Robert F. Flemmings, and John Standard all have in common? They were all African-American inventors! As part of Black History Month, have your children learn about them and their inventions. African-American Inventors and Their Inventions

1.Sarah Boone – ironing board

2.Alexander Miles – elevator

3.Garrett Morgan – traffic signal

4.Robert F. Flemmings – guitar

5.John Standard – refrigerator

6.George T. Sampson – clothes drier

7.D. Johnson – lawn mower

8.Bessie Blount – a device that allows amputees to feed themselves

9.Otis Boykin – a variable resistor used in guided missile parts

10.George Grant – world’s first patent for a golf tee

11.John Lee Love – pencil sharpener rotated by hand

12.Richard Spikes – automobile directional signals

13.William Purvis – self-inking hand stamp

14.Kevin Woolfolk – hamster workout wheel

15.Patricia Bath – first African-American woman doctor to receive a patent for a medical invention, a method for removing cataract lenses using a laser device

16.W. A. Martin – lock

17.G. W. Murray – planter

18.F. M. Jones – air conditioning unit

19.A. C. Richardson – bottle

20.E. R. Robinson – electric railway trolley

21.J. R. Winters – fire escape ladder

22.B. H. Taylor – rotary engine

23.Donald Cotton – propellants for nuclear reactors

24.Norbert Rillieux – a method for refining sugar

25.Emmett W. Chappelle – techniques for the detection of bacteria in urine, blood, drinking waterArticle Submission, and foods

26.J. W. Smith – lawn sprinkler

27.W. U. Moody – game board design

28.A. L. Cradle – ice cream mold

Activities

1.Research other inventions by African Americans.

2.Find the dates of these inventions and make a timeline of them.

3.Discuss how life would be very different without these inventions.

4.Discuss the process of inventing something and have your students come up with their own inventions. They should give their inventions a name and write a description.

5.Classify these inventions into such categories as Things Around the House and Things for Safety.

6.Alphabetize the inventors’ names.

7.Have some children cut out pictures of the inventions and paste them on the left side of index cards. Have other children use sticky labels to write or type the invention and paste them on the right side of the index cards to match the pictures. Make puzzles by cutting down the center of these cards using different patterns. You can also use craft scissors which come in a variety of patterns.

8.Create a criss-cross puzzle or a word-find puzzle with these inventors’ last names.

I hope these ideas are useful and have inspired your own creative thinking!

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Freda J. Glatt, MS, is a retired K-6 teacher. Helping others reinforce reading comprehension through FUNdamental Reading Activities, including games and worksheets, is her new educational goal. Visit her site at http://www.sandralreading.com.

What To Do If Your Number Is Spoofed

“Who is this?” “Why did you call me?” “Stop harassing me!!” If you’ve been getting messages like these from people you’ve never contacted, someone might be spoofing your phone number. Read on to learn what to do if your number is spoofed.

What is number spoofing?

Number spoofing is when someone fakes outgoing caller ID info to show a number that isn’t theirs. The spoofed number often belongs to a real person or business, but not to the person using it to call you.

A common strategy is neighbor spoofing, which is when the caller displays a number with your area code so that you’re more likely to pick up. Scammers will even spoof the numbers of legitimate government agencies, banks, and insurance providers to fool people into paying fraudulent fees or revealing sensitive information.

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The World’s Most Magical Christmas Villages to Visit This Year

Carolers, hot chocolate, holiday decorations galore…celebrating Christmas is an art form, and these small towns have perfected it, spreading cheer every December. A Santa in the square? Child’s play. Here, villages turn storybook Christmases straight out of a Dickens novel into reality, taking celebrations to the next level in the form of parades, unique trees, miles of ornate lighting displays, pageants, and enough chestnuts and cocoa to send the elves into hibernation. If you want to feel like you’re stepping inside your favorite magical holiday flick, visit one of these best Christmas villages and towns in the U.S., Germany, and around the world.

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Slovan, California

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In the Santa Ynez Mountains outside Santa Barbara, this tiny Danish village celebrates Christmas with ample cheer during its annual Julefest. Events include the Skål Stroll Wine and Beer Walk, candlelight tours, a nativity pageant, a holiday concert, and the Julefest parade. Keep an eye peeled for the Jule Nisse: festive gnomes with clues leading toward holiday prizes.
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Bad Ragaz, Switzerland

The Swiss town of Bad Ragaz kicks off its yearly Christmas season in late November with a ceremonial Festival of Lights, illuminating the 131-foot-tall sequoia tree on the lawn of Grand Resort Bad Ragaz—supposedly the tallest living Christmas tree in Europe. Other events hosted at the picturesque village’s Grand Resort include several Christmas markets, multiple concerts, dinners, parties, and processions, and a Russian Christmas gala.
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Franklin Tennessee

Nearly 100,000 people travel to Franklin, Tennessee each year for its Dickens of a Christmas: a two-day festival featuring over 200 musicians, dancers, and characters from Charles Dickens stories. Other highlights include a Victorian Christmas Village, carriage rides, and a makers village.
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Aarhus, Denmark

Denmark’s second-largest city, the quaint destination of Aarhus, is a Christmas dream. The town boasts thousands of lights on its “Strøget” high street, with delights including a Christmas market selling Danish specialties, the exterior of department store Salling wrapped up like a gift, Christmas tree-lined streets in the Latin Quarter, and a panorama of Danish Christmas throughout the ages at The Old Town Museum, Den Gamle By.
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Williamsburg, Virginia

Calling itself the Best Christmas Town in America, Colonial Williamsburg particularly shines at Christmastime. Traditions abound, such as caroling by torchlight, a gun-salute display, and every home in the historic area lighting a candle in their windows—dating back to the days of the Founding Fathers. As far as lights, the area can’t be beat, with Busch Gardens donning 10 million lights for the largest display in North America. And the Community Christmas Tree Lighting Ceremony at Market Square is a must.
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Colmar, France

A quaint Alsatian village close to the German border, Colmar is reportedly one of the locales that inspired Belle’s town in Beauty and the Beast. Indeed, the fairy-tale aspect of Colmar comes to life during the holidays, with five Christmas markets, an endless array of twinkling lights, carolers, a roller coaster, carousel, and ice-skating rink.
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Alexandria, Virginia

For a traditional American Christmas, head to Alexandria, Virginia, where the Old Town’s streets and 18th-century row houses bustle with good cheer each December. Festive-seekers can find carolers, hand bell choirs, ample lights and decorations, while close by there’s Mount Vernon, home to Aladdin, a Christmas camel, as well as a Colonial Christmas experience.
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Rothenburg ob der Tauber, Germany

A meticulously-preserved walled medieval town in Germany, Rothenburg ob der Tauber boasts a centuries old Christmas market well-worth the trip to its cobblestone streets. (Incredibly, this used to be Germany’s second largest city.) Revelers can find treats like mulled wine, grilled sausage, roast chestnuts, or an original Rothenburg Snowball fried dough pastry, while other highlights include a German Christmas Museum. The market kicks off every year with the appearance of the “Rothenburger Riders,” horsemen who—while formerly scary—are now believed to be messengers of good news
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Santa Claus, Indiana

With a name like Santa Claus, how could this small Indiana town not be full of seasonal tidings? Celebrations include the annual Christmas parade, a Santa Claus Arts & Crafts Show, Santa’s Candy Castle for elven chats, a German-inspired Das Nikolaus Fest, and the Santa Claus Museum & Village, where children can write letters to St. Nick. (PS: letters postmarked by December 20th will receive a response, too!)
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Mont Tremblant, Quebec

At Christmastime, Canada’s pedestrian village Mont Tremblant turns into a winter wonderland, complete with skiing, tubing, dog sledding, and horse-drawn sleighs. Toufou, the town mascot, greets visitors who come for events such as the holiday parade, Lumberjack Day, concerts and entertainment from the Grelot Family elves, and generational storytelling on Legends Day.
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Branson, Missouri

It’s no wonder Branson is known as America’s Christmas Tree City: this is a town that does Christmas proud. Over 6.5 million lights sparkle in Branson every festive season, with other highlights including more than 1000 Christmas trees, Rudolph’s Holly Jolly Christmas Light Parade, a drive-through lights display, Living Nativity petting zoo, and the Christmas celebration at Silver Dollar City with its nightly lights display and Christmas festival.
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Coburg, Germany

The hometown of Queen Victoria’s husband Prince Albert—who reportedly introduced the Christmas tree and other German festive customs to England—the Bavarian city of Coburg comes alive at Christmastime with its traditional Christmas Market, candlelight parade led by the Coburg Children’s Choir, and Christmas decorations aplenty. Revelers can also enjoy treats like spiced wine, mulled beer, and Lebkuchen, a baked German gingerbread treat, as well as enjoy horse and carriage rides around the charming town.
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Frankenmuth, Michigan

During the holidays, Little Bavaria in Frankenmuth, Michigan features a panoply of events earning its spot as one of the preeminent Christmas destinations. Highlights include a European-style Christmas market, meals with Santa and Mrs. Claus, horse-drawn carriage rides, and the world’s largest Christmas store: Bronner’s Christmas Wonderland, the size of one-and-a-half football fields.
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Winchester, England

This medieval city features one of England’s biggest and most charming German-inspired Christmas markets with more than one hundred wooden chalets. Seasonal bright spots include the outdoor skating rink, British Crafts Village complete with nativity scene; festive food like bratwurst, minced pies and mulled wine; family carols at Winchester Cathedral; an annual Lantern Parade; and a charitable Santa Fun Run.
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Riverside, California

The six-week long Festival of Lights debuts each Thanksgiving at historic The Mission Inn in Riverside, California, with a grand countdown celebration featuring more than 5 million holiday lights and a fireworks display. Despite the sunny Southern California background, holiday-seekers can find horse-drawn carriages, an arts market, nightly live entertainment, and, of course, visits with Santa Claus.
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Montreux, Switzerland

The small Swiss town of Montreux features a legendary Christmas Market overlooking Lac Léman, with more than 160 chalet stalls, crafts, mulled wine, local delicacies, live music, artisan gifts, and numerous restaurants. Children and adults alike can enjoy the Lumberjack Village, catch sight of Santa on his flying sleigh, ride the Big Ferris Wheel, visits elves in the Place du Marche (otherwise known as Elves Square), and even take a cogwheel train up the Rochers-de-Naye mountain to Santa’s House. Nearby, the medieval fortress of Chillon Castle provides even more festive delights.
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Bath, England

The Georgian spa town of Bath transforms into a winter wonderland at Christmas, complete with annual Bath Christmas market featuring more than 150 chalets, an ice rink, Victorian carousel, parties, wreath-making workshops, festive train rides, visits from Santa, and more. Don’t forget to check out the Christmas Tree Carol Trail to enjoy each of ten trees decorated in the style of a classic Christmas song.
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North Pole, Alaska

Only fifteen miles away from Fairbanks, you’ll find the picture-perfect village of North Pole, Alaska. As befitting a town literally celebrating Christmas year-round—Santa and Mrs. Claus make an appearance in the 4th of July parade—here guests can find the Santa Claus House: equal parts general-store, post office, and holiday shop. No trip is complete without seeing Santa’s sleigh and reindeer, the annual Winter Festival, the world’s largest Santa statue, and aptly named streets like Snowman Lane and Kris Kringle Drive.
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Freiburg, Germany

As the unofficial capital of southwest Germany’s Black Forest, the town of Freiburg features Christmas charm aplenty. Its traditional and undeniably quaint Christmas market offers crafts, gifts, seasonal nibbles and drinks from more than 130 stalls, while other must-dos include a life-sized wooden nativity and daily advent services at St. Martin’s Church.
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It turns out money can kind of buy happiness after all

Does winning the lottery even make you happier? For a long time, researchers said no. Research hadn’t found any conclusive evidence that people who won large sums of money were happier afterward. There was even some evidence they were worse off.

This fact became widely known, partially because it’s so appealing to many people. It’s nice to think that life satisfaction isn’t just about how much money you have, that other things matter more, that we can’t solve all our problems with a sudden infusion of cash.

But there’s a problem with that research: It’s probably wrong. At least, that’s what is argued by economists Andrew J. Oswald and Rainer Winkelmann at the University of Warwick in the new academic book The Economics of Happiness. Their chapter in the book makes the case that past research about the lottery was badly designed, which is why it found the counterintuitive conclusion that lottery winnings don’t make us happy, instead of the much more boring truth: They totally do.

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15 Amazing Facts About U.S. Presidents You Never Knew

U .S. presidents are some of the most studied, discussed, and well-known figures in history. Yet there is so much about them that still manages to surprise. From odd hobbies and strange coincidences to just downright quirky behavior, presidents of the United States are colorful characters you may only think you understand. To get a better sense of who these guys were (and are), here are 30 astonishing facts about the men who have sat behind the Resolute Desk.

1. | George Washington Was in the Whiskey Business

Aside from the five farms his home, Mount Vernon, included, you could also find a distillery. It wasn’t in the original plans, but Washington had a bounty of rye planted in his farms as a cover crop (what farmers use to hold soil in place to safeguard against elements). He and his plantation manager figured, hey, why let it go to waste? The distillery was established in 1797 (after he was president) and produced about 11,000 gallons of whiskey per year. Today, the distillery still releases a limited number of bottles annually.

2. | John F. Kennedy Illegally Joined the Navy

Kennedy was plagued with a bad back that kept him from enlisting in the Army. But no matter: he used his father’s resources to have a family doctor fake a good bill of health, so he could sneak into the Navy and eventually become a lieutenant. Where many presidents found ways to get out of serving—from dodging the draft to paying people to serve in their place—he was an example of true grit and strength. At one point, while serving as a skipper, a Japanese destroyer sunk his boat in burning flames, after which he swam four hours to safety by holding the life jacket strap with his teeth.

3. | Teddy Roosevelt Continued a Speech After Getting Shot in the Chest

During his third campaign running for president (which he lost), Roosevelt was set to deliver a speech in Wisconsin when a would-be assassin by the name of John Schrank shot him in the chest. Thankfully, Roosevelt’s speech was so long that the 50 pages of notes in his chest pocket slowed the bullet (though it did still pierce his chest), and he went on to finish his 84-minute speech. According to the Roosevelt Association, he addressed the audience then and there with the news:

“Friends, I shall ask you to be as quiet as possible. I don’t know whether you fully understand that I have just been shot; but it takes more than that to kill a Bull Moose. But fortunately, I had my manuscript, so you see I was going to make a long speech, and there is a bullet—there is where the bullet went through—and it probably saved me from it going into my heart. The bullet is in me now, so that I cannot make a very long speech, but I will try my best.”

4. | Ronald Reagan Was Really into Astrology

Reagan loved astrology so much that he even had an astrologer (Joan Quigley) on-hand, which he paid through a third party, since astrological guidance wasn’t exactly presidential. Nancy and Ronald Reagan confirmed that astrology was not used for making any presidential policy decisions, but rather just to consult before scheduling any events or announcements. A “forecast” color code was established for his schedule, where each day was given a color: green for days Reagan was in the clear, yellow for days in which people should exercise caution, and red for bad days.

5. | President Lincoln Established the Secret Service

Lincoln signed legislation on April 14, 1865, authorizing the creation of a government agency that would gain its fame for protecting the President of the United States: the U.S. Secret Service. He was shot and fatally wounded just hours later. However, even if established earlier, the agency probably wouldn’t have been any help: the original purpose of the Secret Service was to investigate and stop counterfeit money trading, as fake money accounted for up to 50 percent of the currency in circulation at the time.

6. | Clinton Lost the Nuclear Codes for Months and Nobody Knew

The president of the United States must always have the codes needed to launch a U.S. nuclear site close by. It’s not really a guarded button that’s always kept on hand, but rather a set of codes that authorize a launch. Every 30 days, a Pentagon staffer is required to check the codes to ensure they’re correct. Then, they’re replaced every four months.

For one of those four-month spans, every time that member was dispatched to check the codes, President Clinton’s aide would say that he was too busy, and the Pentagon official would leave. It wasn’t until the fourth month, when it was time to collect the old codes to replace with new codes, that it became clear that Clinton had totally lost them. Since then, measures have been put in place so that even if the President is “too busy,” the Pentagon official must physically wait (for however long necessary) to verify the codes.

7. | Franklin Pierce Didn’t Swear on the Oath

Upon inauguration, most presidents swear an oath—generally, on the Bible—to the office. Franklin Pierce, the 14th president, didn’t. He merely vocally affirmed it. (In fact, there is actually no law or mandate requiring that oaths in any office be taken on a bible. It has simply become customary.)

Also, Pierce’s vice president, William R. King, was the only VP to ever have been sworn in on foreign soil. King was in Cuba at the time of inauguration, nursing a bad bout of tuberculosis. He died 45 days into the Pierce’s tenure, and the VP office stayed empty for the rest of the term.

8. | President Harrison Only Served One Month

William Harrison died 32 days after becoming President, holding the title for “shortest serving president in American history.” He died of a cold he got while standing in the rain giving is inauguration speech—which, in stark contrast to his time in office, is still the longest running inaugural address in American history. And for more wild presidential stories, check out the 30 Craziest Things U.S. Presidents Have Done.

9. | President Obama Rules the Court

Barack Obama played basketball on JV and Varsity from 1970 to 1970. He was so good, his nickname on his high school basketball team was “Barry O’Bomber,” named after his jump shot. To this day, he’s still pretty good, and he’s mentioned that playing basketball is one of his favorite activities. While he was in office, he would always play a game of basketball on election days, and one got so competitive that he was actually elbowed in the faced and needed 12 stitches!

10. | Jefferson Was Afraid of Public Speaking

Thomas Jefferson was an incredibly intelligent and skilled man, but he preferred to move in silence. In fact, he only made two speeches during his entire eight-year presidency. And when he did, they were “hardly audible.” Many congressmen have been recorded as describing him as quiet, and he has been noted as saying that he would like to “go on in a strict but silent performance of my duty: to avoid attracting notice.”

11. | Donald Trump Doesn’t Drink Alcohol

Despite his reputation for being an partier from the Manhattan 1980s heyday, Donald Trump claims to be a total teetotaler.. In fact (he claims), he’s never done drugs or smoke cigarettes, either. He himself will say that he doesn’t like to ever be out of control, and therefore doesn’t take the risk of consuming alcohol. His alcoholic brother’s death probably played a role in his view toward abstinence as well.

12. | Two Women Shot at President Ford

Two completely unrelated women, 17 days apart, shot at Gerald Ford while he was on his campaign trail in 1975. One, Lynette Fromme, was a member of Charles Manson’s cult, while the other, Sara Jane Moore, was by all accounts “normal.” It’s not clear what exactly prompted these women to shoot at Ford.

13. | President Wilson is on the $100,000 Bill

Yes, the $100,000 bill exists, but they’re very hard to find: they were only created during a three-week stretch of time in 1934. The bills were designed for circulation among the Federal Reserve banks but fell out of use with the invention of the wire transfer.

14. | Cherries and Milk Killed War Hero Zachary Taylor

Though he was a pretty tough guy—a war hero, in fact—Zachary Taylor was done in by two fairly innocuous little thing: cherries and milk. It’s still unclear whether it was the cherries or the milk, but one (or both) of them were contaminated with bacteria that infected him with cholera. He died five days later.

15. | President Garfield Was Shot—But Doctors Caused His Death

President Garfield was shot at in a train station by a deranged writer; the bullet hit his spine and lodged in his abdomen. Keep in mind, this was in the 1830s, and germ theory wasn’t established until 30 years later, so the doctors that rushed to the scene were literally digging through the open wound to try to find the bullet.

Unable to do so, they brought Garfield back to the White House, attempting to widen the wound and dig further. This didn’t work, so in came Alexander Graham Bell (yes, the same guy who invented the phone) with a rudimentary electromagnetic induction device that he had previously experimentally used to detect bullets in meat. Unfortunately, they still couldn’t get it, and eventually his body simply shut down from having to fight off infections for 80 days.

Source : https://bestlifeonline.com/us-president-facts/

Planning To Quit Smoking

Millions of people smoke, and to many, particularly those that have been smoking for some time, the prospect of quitting seems daunting. An addiction to nicotine is a serious one, and is multifaceted: there is a physical component, in that your body craves the nicotine the cigarettes contain, and a psychological one, in that many habits and situations become associated with cigarettes for the smoker. For these reasons it is important that you come up with a plan of attack in order to quit smoking: although the cold-turkey technique works for some people, the vast majority of smokers will have success only with a more comprehensive plan.

When you first consider the prospect of quitting smoking, it’s probably going to seem far fetched, but keep in mind that thousands of people – people that are no different from you – quit smoking every year. If they can do it, there’s no reason that you can’t. Many smokers also feel that after a certain age it is “too-late” to quit smoking. Simply put, this isn’t true, and should not be used as an excuse to avoid an attempt to quit smoking: the health benefits of quitting smoking begin the very day you stop.

Before you actually have your last cigarette, begin to build up your willpower. Your willpower is going to be your most important tool in quitting, and it’s very unlikely that you will be successful without it. Spend some time thinking of the reasons you want to quit smoking. Learn about the health benefits of quitting, for both yourself and the people around you. Do some math and come up with some figures for the amount of money you’ll save by not buying cigarettes, and think of something you’ll use that money for.

Once you’ve built up your willpower, it’s time to have your last cigarette. To keep your spirits up, understand that the human body is incredibly resilient, and your health will improve as soon as you stop smoking – literally. 8 hours after your last cigarette, carbon monoxide levels and oxygen levels in your blood stream will return to normal. At 24 hours after your last cigarette, you statistically reduce your chance of a heart attack. Only 48 hours after your last cigarette, your sense of taste and smell will improve as your nerve endings start growing.

As you continue to stay smoke free, think of the longer-term benefits to quitting in order to keep your willpower up: even after 2 weeks your lung power will begin to increase, and continue to do so over time. Other aspects of your health will continue to improve in various ways. The ultimate motivator should be the knowledge that 15 years after quitting, your risk of death is almost the same as someone who has never smoked – a remarkable fact that illustrates our the human body’s surprising ability to restore itself.

By coming up with a concrete plan to quit smoking you will greatly increase your chances of success. Crucial is understanding the important role that your willpower will play in the process, and planning to build up this willpower weeks before you attempt to quit. Once you’ve stopped you have to keep the strength of this willpower up, and to do so, remind yourself of the health benefits you will be privy to immediately after butting out that last cigarette.

New Year’s Resolutions

Have you kept to your new year’s resolutions? Sadly most of us haven’t, and many of us have given up trying. But why is this? Are you going to wait another 12 months before you try again? Many people give up if they fail once. You are putting unreasonable pressure on yourself if you do this.

In one of the British Heart Foundation publications I came across a lovely phrase: ” A lapse is not a collapse”. In other words, because you’ve failed once, it doesn’t mean you’ve failed completely. Sometimes you have to fail several (or even many) times before you succeed. Thomas Edison said: “Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.” It is said that Edison was asked how he could bear to have so many failed experiments, and he said: “I’ve learnt 700 ways not to make a light bulb.” I’m not sure if this story is true, but it really shows graphically the power of positive persistence.

So, pick yourself up and try again, but before you do – think again. Think about the goal you’ve set yourself, and ask yourself some questions: Is it worth achieving? Is this the best way to achieve it? Do I need help from others to achieve my goal? Should I break a big goal down into several smaller goals? Have I set myself too many goals?

Then be persistent and tenacious. Louis Pasteur said: “Let me tell you the secret that has led me to my goal: my strength lies solely in my tenacity”.

Make 2020 a year when you got closer to the person you could be:

“The very least you can do in your life is to figure out what you hope for. And the most you can do is live inside that hope. Not admire it from a distance but live right in it, under its roof.” Barbara Kingsolver

Apparently a baby falls at least 1500 whilst learning to walk. Now that’s an interesting thought – think of all those things that we would have never learnt as babies if we’d given up as easily as we do now!

Use H-O-L-L-Y to Beat Christmas Cooking Stress

What does holly, that untidy traditional greenery you just have to festoon your house with every year, have to do with not tearing your hair out before it’s even Thanksgiving? Plenty. You can use H-O-L-L-Y to help you get organized.

1. H: Help

How many times have you tried to do the perfect turkey all by yourself just so your mother-in-law would be impressed? Here’s a reality check: (a) If your mother-in-law is any kind of a real woman, she remembers that her mother-in-law put the exact same pressure on her, and (b) if she’s the kind of person who complains because the cranberries come from a can, she’s the kind of person who complains anyway and would be unhappy if she couldn’t try to make you look like an incompetent nitwit, and how a woman like that could raise your wonderful husband is beyond everyone.

If that husband is such a great guy, get him in the kitchen. Sit down and plan what the two of you really want—he might not want a six-course dinner, which is fine, because you don’t either. Get the kids involved. By now some of them are at that stage where they want to show off what they can do “all by myself,” and you know that even though you hate your daughter’s taste in music, she did make killer stuffing last Thanksgiving. And your son makes a great omelet for Christmas morning. Then there’s your sister who loves to chat, so put her to work while you listen to her endless monologue.

Electronic help is great too—use a PDA or the family computer to keep a list of recipes and ingredients. There are many great, sometimes free, computer programs available.

2. O: Oh-No

Let’s face it. You’ll make mistakes. The sugar cookies will burn. You can always “eat” your mistakes and try again—just don’t try a new recipe for the first time Christmas Day. In fact, plan for your mistakes. That’s right. Most of us spend so much time agonizing over avoiding mistakes we forget that they are going to happen anyway, and not necessarily at our hands. So your best girlfriend Susan brought over deviled ham instead of double chocolate cake…there’s a reason we have bakeries, right? Just cheerfully accept the mistake and move on. People can get over a slightly too well-done roast, but they will be downright uncomfortable if you spend the entire dinner moaning about it.

3. L: Love

You know Christmas is the season of love, and you can have as much fun with take-out pizza as you can with an elegant dinner if the company is right. One sure way to recapture love is to bake cookies together. There’s nothing like the sight of kids rolling dough and decorating their works of art.

4. L: Let It Be

Sorry for the Paul McCartney overtones, but once you have your plan in place, stick to it—that doesn’t mean you can’t compromise slightly. Agonizing over turkey versus tofu causes you to lose your appetite, and is as harmful to your cooking as disorganization. Sticking to a decision and keeping your plan, no matter what everyone else thinks, gives you peace of mind.

5. Y: You

Remember that there will be stress around the holidays, but that your mind can choose not to give in. You can choose to refuse another beer because “I’m frazzled” or avoid inviting people you really can’t stand just because your mind thinks you have an obligation to be popular and kill yourself feeding 25 people. You can throw snowballs, or, if you live in California, go throw some water on the wildfires…just take your mind off your cooking. You’ll rediscover just why it is you’re cooking and what you love about Christmas.

So that’s your H-O-L-L-Y for a happy holiday. And when all else fails, there’s chocolate.


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Kristin Johnson, co-author of Christmas Cookies Are For Giving: Stories, Recipes and Tips for Making Heartwarming Gifts

Birthday Present For Dad

One of the biggest challenges I face each year is finding a birthday present for Dad. Fathers can be difficult when it comes to gifts because most of them have just about everything they want. I asked my dad what he wanted one year and he said that if he wants something, he goes to the store to get it. This statement gave me an idea.

Maybe we shouldn’t try to get gifts for fathers that they actually want. I went on a quest this year to find a birthday present for Dad that he doesn’t know that he wants but he will want it when he sees it. Sound confusing? Bear with me. It will all come together after you discover what I found.

There are a ton of great gift ideas for fathers that are cutting edge innovations that most dads have no idea even exist. Spending a little time on the Internet can help you find some a great birthday present for Dad that will leave him speechless. He may possibly ask what it is, too.

Following are my top picks for my birthday present for Dad. They range in style and price but I do think that I found the perfect gift in this bunch. These are just a few of the many options available for kids and adults who are looking for the perfect token for their dads.

My father is a coffee drinker so the first item that caught my eye was a Plug n’ Heat Coffee Mug. He loves coffee but he is always complaining that it seems to loose heat way too fast even in his favorite thermos. The Plug n’ Heat Coffee Mug plugs into your cigarette lighter in your vehicle and keeps the beverage at a nice, warm temperature no matter how cold it is outside.

This gift for fathers is great but I wanted something a little more unusual. I think that the massage socks are fantastic but the Sudoku toilet paper was really standing out. The socks are great but it wasn’t the perfect birthday gift for Dad. The Sudoku toilet paper would have been good for a laugh but not much more than that.

The winner of the perfect birthday present for Dad is the T-Qualizer. This innovative t-shirt works like an equalizer panel on a stereo. The great thing about the T-Qualizer is that it actually works with the sounds in the room.

I gave this birthday present for Dad with pride and I accompanied the package with a CD of his favorite music. His shirt bounced to the beat and he was delighted with the product. He didn’t even know how much he wanted it.